10 Ways To Spice Things Up In The Bedroom
After a long-time commitment, people often settle into a routine... and routines are boring. Here's what you can do to spice things up in your bedroom!
1. Have some fun.
Don't always take yourselves too seriously and have some fun from time to time. Stress can have a serious impact on your sex life and by getting your mind off work, kids or money issues, you're more likely to get in the mood for sexy time. Go out together, laugh, play games, dance or watch a movie and enjoy each other's company.
2. Relax together.
After a long day at work, you may often feel too tired to even think about sex. That's perfectly normal and it's ok, but if this becomes a regular thing, one day you'll realize that it's been months since you last had sex. To avoid this, take some time every week to relax together. Go to a spa, get couple's massages, go to the beach, whatever you need to recharge your batteries.
3. Try new things.
Get some sex toys, try new positions and let your imagination flow. When it comes to sex, there are so many things you haven't tried yet. Explore each other's fantasies and keep things interesting by trying new things every time.
4. Watch porn together.
Not only it will get you in the mood, but it can also give you some ideas of things to try with your partner.
5. Share your desires.
Communication is very important when it comes to sex. If there's something new you'd like to try with your partner, make sure you communicate it. At the same time, listen carefully to what your partner shares and turn sex into an amazing experience for both of you.
6. Break the routine.
Don't just wait for Saturday evening to have sex in your bedroom. Use your lunch break, meet at a hotel, and don't just stick to the bed, when there are so many places in your house you can "sexplore".
7. Schedule sex.
If you can't seem to make time for sex, just schedule it. Prioritize it and plan it, so nothing can come up. Book a hotel room, go away for the weekend or leave the kids with the grandparents, so you can just enjoy each other.
8. Get naughty.
If talking dirty or trying something kinky comes to mind, just go with it. Don't worry about it being awkward, just see where it takes you.
9. Be spontaneous.
Send a spontaneous sext, show up at your partner's office for a quickie, wake them up in the middle of the night or try doing it in a public place.
10. Lose the clothes.
Clearly, you have to put something on when you're in public, but that's not the case when you're home alone with your partner. Just lose the clothes, especially when you go to sleep, and you'll increase the chances of having sex.