Couples With The Hottest Love Lives Always Do These 10 Things
All relationships have their ups and downs and maintaining a healthy sex life is crucial for any long-term commitment. Sure, after a while, you need more than raging hormones to keep the excitement going. Here's what the couples with the hottest sex lives do to keep the passion alive.
1. They turn on each other, even when sex is not an option.
Couples with a healthy sex life tease each other and savor being aroused together even when sex is not an option. For them, sex is just a tip of the iceberg, so they don't abstain from turning each other on when they are in public, or when sex is not a possibility.
2. They stay in shape and take care of their bodies.
Those who share great sex with their partners take care of themselves, in order to feel confident and comfortable in their skin. They are careful about what they eat and they work out regularly, so they stay fit, in a great physical condition.
3. They have fun in and outside the bedroom.
Partners who share great sex don't take each other too seriously. Because silly things happen in the bedroom, too, it's important to be able to laugh together. Besides, let's not forget that humor is a great aphrodisiac which also relieves stress. And all your everyday worries have to stay out of the bedroom.
4. They go to bed together.
Couples who go to bed at the same time have sex more often, they are happier and more connected. They share more intimate moments, they hold each other before falling asleep and this strengthens the connection between partners.
5. They split the chores.
A study published in the Journal of Family and Marriage shows that couples who split the chores have sex more often. According to the experts, splitting the housework makes the partners feel like equals and that leads to better sex. Also, it kinda makes sense that by not having to do everything around the house, neither of them gets exhausted and they're both in the mood for sexy time.
6. They explore each other's fantasies.
Couples with healthy sex lives don't mind trying new things they've read online or seen in a movie. They explore each other's fantasies and they get a bit dirtier every year.
7. They kiss and touch all the time.
It's important to kiss and touch each other all the time, even when you're not having sex, in order to build up the intimacy. Couples with a hot sex life don't ever forget to kiss when they part, they hold hands, and they always make these small gestures, like caressing, pinching or tickling, that keep the passion alive.
8. They communicate.
In order to have a great sex life, you need to communicate openly about your needs, likes or dislikes and really listen to your partner. Couples who share hot sex discuss everything, they talk about their fantasies and the new things they'd like to try and they overcome sexual challenges together.
9. They prioritize being with each other.
You may not always have the time to be with your partner, but you have to make time. For those who share a hot sex life, the moments spent together are a priority, and they don't just postpone sex until the kids are gone camping or they're not as tired. They make the time, they take weekends away and they simply make it happen.
10. They are generous.
Couples who have a hot sex life are givers. They aren't selfish in bed, they focus on pleasing the other one first, and since they both do the same, this leads to amazing sex. Happy couples always focus more on what they give than what they get, both in and out the bedroom.